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Tue, Dec. 28th, 2004 05:34 pm


Wed, Dec. 29th, 2004 05:29 pm (UTC)
what a popular post

I understand where you are coming from. I have an idea of "my perfect someone" (who isn't expected to be perfect of course); however, the search for him is tiresome and often seems futile. What I have accepted is that though I have many awesome guy friends I have yet to meet my future husband (and marriage is the ultimate goal in dating, which is sadly why I had to end a relationship with a great guy, because I knew I could never marry him). What I have decided to do in my "lonely times" is work on building a stronger relationship with God, and praying that my future husband does the same. Also, I try to become the woman that I would want my "perfect man" to be with (these are changes that I make without a particular guy in mind, so I am not trying to change in order to make a guy like me...just in case that wasn't clear) that way he can find me as well.

ex. I want a strong Christian man, and I think to
myself a strong Christian man, would probably want a
strong Christian woman. So I become that.

ex. I want a man who is a little old fashioned when it
comes to gender roles. So I become accepting of all
aspects of that ideal.

I know your "perfect someone" is out there and as long as you ideals of "perfect" are pleasing in Gods eyes you will find her and she will be worth the wait no matter how long or short it might be.

God Bless,