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Tue, Dec. 28th, 2004 05:34 pm
Alone?

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krikketgirl
krikketgirl
Kat
Wed, Dec. 29th, 2004 04:14 am (UTC)

Bear this in mind: times change. Goals change. Dreams change. People change. Who you would imagine to be perfect for you right now may not be perfect for you in six months, or even next week. The dreams you hold so dear now may be only illusions which you will happily bid goodbye if necessary--or they may not. BUT if and when you find that someone...and let's remove the 'perfect,' for no one is, but let's define it as the one that makes you laugh and makes you sigh and puts you on the verge of tears all at once and you can't imagine what it would be like to not share all of your hopes with her...then you will find that your dreams are more accessible. You will know she is right because she holds your dreams in your hands.

And until then, as already mentioned, you have this moment to work on all the pieces of you that aren't what you want them to be.


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kawaiipunkd
kawaiipunkd
♥ Devious Honey Bell Shizzle ♥
Wed, Dec. 29th, 2004 04:46 am (UTC)

WOW,that makes me more sonscious of my relationship with Nick (or lack there of)

I have been with this guy for the last 4 YEARS! not once has he stood up for me against his bitchy friends, they all hate me. he's constantly late for EVERYTHING, even if I were dying of a gunshot wound, he would be late getting me to the hospital, and thus causing my death. Aparently he was going to ask me to marry him, but as I am still wighout a ring, we all know where that "idea" went... out the window...

I keep on making all these stupid excuses for him, and it's not fair to me... I thikn it can be summed up in a phrase "he's just not into you" if he would really want this, he'll be there no matter what...


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krikketgirl
krikketgirl
Kat
Wed, Dec. 29th, 2004 04:51 am (UTC)

That sounds like a not-very-fulfilling relationship.

I knew that Chris was right for me because he was passionate about not just me, but about the things that I'm passionate about. He held my hopes and cherished thoughts close to him, because he knew they were precious to me. Find a guy like that, and you will have found a gem.

No one of us is perfect, but we do have the responsibility to look at the relationships in our life and make sure that they are what we need to be spending time on. I wish you well in your relationship, whatever happens.


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kawaiipunkd
kawaiipunkd
♥ Devious Honey Bell Shizzle ♥
Wed, Dec. 29th, 2004 05:03 am (UTC)

yeah, it's not very fulfilling, infact, he usually only calls me when he wants to see me, when I call him, it takes forever for him to get back to me... I am considering this relationship dead in the water...


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abadoss
abadoss
Kenneth Edward Keyn
Wed, Dec. 29th, 2004 10:35 am (UTC)

I'll refer to an above comment I made...

http://www.livejournal.com/users/abadoss/140418.html?thread=227714#t227714


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