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Sun, Feb. 20th, 2005 12:00 am
Grr...

Is there anything wrong with wanting people to respect the customs of my home? Is asking people to knock before entering such a bad thing? I asking that people not enter the house when no one is there a horrible travesty?

I'm starting to get very annoyed by people that have no respect for how I view manners concerning guests. I feel very walked all over right now.

I had the apartment to myself this evening, so I sat down to watch a movie. Loren (who, thankfully, is now aware of a few of my customs) then comes over, so I open the door and let him come over. Next comes a mass of people who are then sitting around me as I'm watching the movie talking and being social with each other. In the meantime they're wanting to use the place for Randall's birthday party. I finally manage to get them to go else where by saying that I'm going to bed early (which was partly the truth, since I really was feeling drained and tired by all of this). Once they took off, I made myself dinner, watched a little bit of television, and went to my room to work on some music.

I'm thinking the ordeal done and over, but how wrong I am. They're all back (because Jeremy is back from work now) and making all kinds of noise and they have the stereo on.

Grr...

And why the hell do I always end up the asshole when I want people to respect me in my own home?!?! GAH!!!

Current Mood: annoyed annoyed
Current Music: "Untitled 20" -Kenneth Edward Keyn

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kawaiipunkd
kawaiipunkd
♥ Devious Honey Bell Shizzle ♥
Sun, Feb. 20th, 2005 08:49 am (UTC)

this happens to me all the time when Becky has all of her friends over in the morning when I am dead asleep, she's awake, making noise, cleaning etc.... then when she wakes me up she's sorry, but takes no additional measure to make sure iut didn't happen in the first place. I am very respectful, I won't open anyone else's door without permission, hell I don't even eat other peoples food unless forced, and I most deffinately try and me as silent as I possibly can when I do have company over (since most of the time I am home when she is asleep.)

At this point, I am ready to up and move to Pittsburgh....


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abadoss
abadoss
Kenneth Edward Keyn
Sun, Feb. 20th, 2005 06:44 pm (UTC)

Yeah, it's a bit similiar.


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fedupgirl
Fedupgirl
Sun, Feb. 20th, 2005 06:23 pm (UTC)

Can you get your own place? Its SO much better.


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abadoss
abadoss
Kenneth Edward Keyn
Sun, Feb. 20th, 2005 06:42 pm (UTC)

Not realistically. As much as I would like living on my own, the expenses wouldn't be reasonable at this point. Plus, I do enjoy the apartment during the times when it is actually quiet.


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